10 Methods You Can Try For A Better Nights Sleep


The Best Natural Sleep Remedies

Sleep is vital for everyone. It restores and rebuilds muscles, promotes growth and healing, boosts our immune system, and improves our mood and cognitive awareness.

Many of us are not getting the adequate sleep our body is in dire need of, for it is recommended that adults should get at least 7 to 8 hours of sound sleep, 9 to 10 hours for teenagers, 10 to 11 hours for grade school children, and 12 to 14 hours (including naps taken during the day) for children who are 1-5 years in age.

Lack of, or poor quality sleep, can cause you to feel drowsy, fatigued, irritable, anxious, mood swings, decreases your immune system, and can increase the odds of developing chronic illnesses.

Below, is a list of the top ten remedies than can easily be incorporated into your daily routine, in order to help you fall asleep faster at night, while giving you a more deep, better quality, and restful night’s sleep. So, that you can wake up each morning feeling more refreshed, renewed, and full of energy, to tackle all that life throws at you.

1. Be Active & Exercise During the Day

The more active you are during the day, and the more physical excursion your body undergoes, can help you significantly in developing better sleeping habits.

It has been proven, that thirty minutes of exercise a day, helps stimulate the production of endorphins, which help to improve your mood, reduces anxiety, decompresses the mind, and acts as a natural painkiller.

Regular exercise will also help to reduce cortisol levels, which helps regulate your metabolism, maintain good blood sugar levels, aid in memory formulation, and may reduce inflammation.

Reducing stress in the mind, and tiring the body out during physical activity, will not only help increase sleep quality, but may also improve the duration of sleep.

The time of day you exercise however, makes a big difference on whether it is improving, or disrupting your sleep.

Exercise releases endorphins in the body, which is a chemical that raises activity in the brain, making some people feel more alert and awake.

It can take a minimum of 1 to 2 hours for the endorphins to fully work their way through the brain, this can result in keeping you awake, if you were to work out just before going to bed.

Exercise raises body temperature, which triggers the body to wake up. It can take roughly 30 to 90 minutes for your core body temperature to start dropping back down to normal. The drop in body temperature however, is what can help trigger you to feel sleepy, which is why many people are ready for a nap, shortly after a strenuous workout.

It is recommended, to work out in the mornings or afternoons, in order to promote a healthy sleep/wake cycle, but no two people are alike, and what may work for one person and their schedule, will not necessarily work for another. Its best to try out different routines, to find out what works best for.

If you do prefer to work out at night, then try do so at least 1 to 2 hours before your planned bedtime, in order to give adequate time for endorphin levels and core body temperature to return to normal, so that you are able to get more sound shut-eye.

2. Make Your Room a Cool, Dark Place

It is important to create an atmosphere in your bedroom that will help promote, and sustain good sleep. According to Dr. Christopher Winter, (who is a Medical Director for Charlottesville Neurology and Sleep clinic), most studies agree that the optimal temperatures for promoting the best sleep patterns is between 60 to 67 degrees. Sleeping within this range of temperatures, helps the body stay asleep, by soundly transitioning through the different sleep stages, instead of waking up throughout the night. Temperatures above 75 or that fall below 54 degrees, will disrupt sleep patterns, and cause you to wake up more frequently, or keep you from going into a deep sleep.

It is also ideal to have a dark room while sleeping, for any light can disrupt our Circadian Rhythm.

The Circadian Rhythm (also called our internal body clock) helps our bodies adjust to knowing when it is time to be awake (during sunlight hours), as well as when our bodies need to wind down for sleep. It is believed that cool temperatures and darkness, naturally trigger the body that it is time for bed.

Maintaining a healthy Circadian Rhythm, will help you feel more rested from day to day, because you are able to get a more quality, deep, and restful night’s sleep.

3. Remove TV From the Room

There are a number of reasons we can dive into on why you should not have a television in your room. Below is some top reasons why you should ditch the TV.

The Light from The TV Will Disrupt Circadian Rhythm

We touched on what Circadian Rhythm is above, and why it is important to keep a dark room at night, while exposing yourself to good sources of light during the day.

Watching TV while lying in bed, throws off the natural Circadian Rhythm in your body that’s telling you it’s time to wind down and go to sleep. If you are one who enjoys falling asleep watching TV, you can rest assured, that you will not be getting deep sound sleep, which will lead to feeling fatigued and wore out during the day.

It Strains Your Eyes

Watching TV alone can cause strain to the eyes, but watching it in a dark room can greatly increase the strain and stress your eyes experience. Strain to the eyes, could cause headaches, which will most definitely make it more difficult to fall asleep.

Can Create Arguments Between You and Your Spouse

You and your spouse may have different routines, and ideas of what helps you to fall asleep. Watching TV may help you to relax and drift off into a snooze, but it may be irritating your spouse who is trying to quietly relax and read a book to help them fall to asleep.

Or your spouse may be a light sleeper, and trying to go to sleep, but the sound of the TV is keeping them awake, and unable to fall asleep. Whatever scenario may be between the two of you, one thing is for certain, that if you both are not on the same page, then an argument is bound to happen, and will lead to disrupting sleep for both partners.

Will Decrease Your Sex Life

Men are visual creatures, while women are more mindful individuals. Lying in bed watching TV, will rarely get a woman in the mood to have sex with you. A woman gets in the mood, through engaging in open communication, and allowing them to talk about, while the man listens, without offering ways to fix the problems (unless she asks for your advice).

I can guarantee you men, that if you were to get the TV out of the bedroom, and try this one method, then you will not only have a happier wife on your hands, but you will also have a more fulfilled sex life.

4. Foods That Help You Sleep

Food is the nutrition that fuels our body, and if done right, can put our body in a state of homeostasis. Part of a healthy diet and lifestyle routine, is to try to not eat big meals right before bed, because the body goes into high gear after meals, in order to process and digest all that we just ate. Eating a large meal before bed, is a sure way to make it harder to fall asleep, or enter into a deep restful night’s sleep (if falling asleep is not an issue).

I’m sure there are times, where you ate an early dinner, but have been up for a while, and are finding yourself hungry again, wanting to raid the cabinet or refrigerator, in order to curb your hunger, so that you can relax and fall asleep.

Rest assured, there are a number of snack foods that will help promote sleep, and curb your hunger throughout the night.

Some top picks are:

  • Greek yogurt (high in casein protein. A slow digesting protein full of amino acids, that keeps you full throughout the night).
  • Turkey (contains tryptophan, which is another amino acid, that helps trigger relaxing neurotransmitter serotonin).
  • Eggs (naturally produces melatonin).
  • Almonds (high in protein, good fats, fiber, and also contain melatonin).
  • Bananas (full of potassium and magnesium, which are both muscle relaxants).
  • Oatmeal (good source of fiber. Works by raising blood sugar levels, which make you feel sleepy. Oatmeal is another food that contains melatonin).

Remember to eat small portions just before bed, and try to limit fluid intake as well.

5. Melatonin

Melatonin is a hormone that the body naturally produces from the pineal gland in the brain. Melatonin works by helping to control your daily sleep/wake cycle. The sleep hormone kicks in naturally, when we prepare the right setting to promote sleep (relaxing activities before bed, cool, dark room, etc.).

Sometimes, even though we create the right settings to trigger sleep, we still find ourselves awake, and unable to relax. During these, we can take melatonin in a capsule form, to help give us that little extra push in to promoting sleep.

You can buy melatonin at any major grocery store, vitamin shop, or convenience store, for it is widely used, and very common.

There are also different types you can buy, e.g. in addition to the standard capsule forms, there are flavored quick dissolving capsules, time-release capsules (that release a certain amount throughout the night, helping you to stay asleep), and many different levels of dosing mg.

It is recommended to take 3 mg as needed, but dosing can be increased in more extreme conditions. Because it is a hormone that the body naturally produces, take caution in using it every night, and try to only us it when you it is needed for that little extra boost to help you fall asleep.

6. Valerian Root

Valerian root is often used in the same way as melatonin, however, it affects the body differently, because valerian root is a herb to help promote sleep, while melatonin is a hormone that your body already produces.

Valerian root can be found in either capsuled form, or drunk as a tea. I have found both forms to be beneficial, however, if you are trying to limit your intake of fluids before bed (because your bladder tends to wake you up throughout the night to use the rest room), then you may want to stick with the capsuled form.

A standard dose is 500 mg before bed, to help you fall into a restful night’s sleep. Some have reported feeling sluggish the next day, if taking valerian root at higher than the recommended doses, so it’s best to stick with the 250 to 500 mg, until you know how your body reacts to it.

7. Herbal Tea

Sitting down with a a good book and warm cup of tea, is a great way to trigger the mind and body that it is time to settle down and relax for the evening.

There are a pleathura of different options in decaffeinated tea, that would help the body and mind relax, e.g. decaffeinated green tea (full of antioxidants to support good health), decaffeinated Earl Grey (for my British loving tea drinkers), herbal teas, etc.

If you are having a hard time winding down however, and looking for one to help increase melatonin levels, then I would recommend drinking either chamomile, Sleepy Time, or valerian root tea.

What tea is best, boils down to preference, and what you would enjoy drinking, so have fun experimenting with different teas, and finding that one that really hits the sweet spot.

8. Diffuse Essential Oils

Essential oils has really grown popularity over the last ten years. They have been known to help reduce stress and anxiety, boost cognitive thinking and energy levels, but they are also extremely beneficial for promoting sleep and relaxation.

You can purchase already mixed sleep blends, or buy individual oils to use as is, or mix and match to your liking.

Some of the top oils for promoting sleep are:

  • Lavender
  • Frankincense (one of my favorites)
  • Cedarwood
  • Sandlewood (another one of my favorites)
  • Roman Chamomile
  • Valerian Root
  • Ylang Ylang
  • Bergamot
  • Vetiver

Be careful of the supplier you buy your essential oils from, because since the oils have grown in popularity, there are many manufacturers who are selling alcohol based fragrant oils, being advertised as essential oils. These oils are of no comparison to the highly concentrated plant form of a true essential oil.

When shopping for essential oils, look for “therapeutic grade” or “organic” essential oils, and only buy from a source that you feel comfortable with and trust.

Plant Therapy is a company I have been buying my oils from for years, and they have always provided an exceptional product, with great costumer service, and affordable pricing. This is a company I trust, but again, purchase from where you feel most comfortable.

9. Pray

Believe it or not, praying can help significantly reduce stress, anxiety, and depression, and give you a feeling of peace and freedom, so that you can take the weight of the world off of your shoulders, and enter into rest.

Praying can help ease your mind, which is often the culprit for lying awake in bed at night, unable to fall asleep. For our minds tend to wonder during the late quiet hours, thinking about things we should have done, or words that should have been expressed differently in certain situations, and sometimes, our thoughts have no meaning at all, but we seem to have a hard time turning off the valve, so that the thoughts can no longer come flooding in.

Prayer can be that valve, to stop the flooding of thoughts, and allow you to feel at peace and relaxed, so that you can have a restful nights sleep.

Here is a prayer you can pray every night, not only over yourself, but you can alter it for praying over a loved one as well;

“Lord, thank you for this wonderful day you have blessed us with, I pray, that you post your angels around our property, my family, and myself, protecting us and watching over us as we sleep. Ease my heart Oh Lord, and fill it with your everlasting peace, love and joy. I pray Father, that you also ease my mind, taking every thought captive that is not from you, or in agreement with your Word, so that I may sleep soundly throughout this night, and awaken refreshed, renewed, full of energy, and ready to conquer the new day that will be put before me. Guide my steps Oh Lord, in all that I do, and all that I put my hand to, and teach me Father, how to love, in the same way you love me. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.”

May you always stay in peace.

10. Read a Book, Instead of Using Your Phone

For most, it has become a habit to lay in bed, checking email, updates, engaging in social media, or watching YouTube videos. This, is not really a good habit to have, and can possibly lead to health issues later on.

Studies have shown that blue light is bad for the eyes, because it causes digital eye strain, and can lead to retina damage of the eye if it is a consistent daily habit. Which could later lead to age-related macular degeneration.

The light from your electronic devices, will also mess with your Circadian Rhythms, and keep you from going into a deep, restful sleep.

Books however, do not cause your eyes to strain, and will not lead to eye retina damage, but instead, will relax your mind (escaping into the book, instead of engaging into social media posts or negative news), and prepare the body for going to sleep.

I know for some, a book does not sound appealing, for you have always done everything on your phone, but it would not hurt to give it a try for your healths sake. You may actually be surprised how much more you enjoy reading a book of interest.

New Found Energy

As mentioned earlier, sleep is vital for everyone, and effects every aspect of the body, whether it be physical, or mental.

I hope that you were able to find some useful remedies that you can easily incorporate into your daily sleep routine, that will result in you feeling much more rested during the day, with new levels of energy you never knew existed.

If there are remedies, not listed above that has really helped you get a more restful nights sleep, then please do share in the comments below. For we are always looking for new, healthy remedies that inspire success!



12 thoughts on “10 Methods You Can Try For A Better Nights Sleep

  1. Hi Brandy, 

    Great post! Thank you for the snack ideas that help with sleep 🙂 I always find myself hungry at bed time but I never want to eat anything too unhealthy right before going to sleep. 

    Definitely being more active will make you sleep, on days I exercise and and am more active I am much more tired and ready for bed and usually sleep a long and hard well needed sleep lol. 

    Thanks again for the info!

  2. Hello this Article is on point! The lay-out of pictures, and what you speak about along with Herbs for relaxing are great. Herbs are from mother nature, and it does give a person comfort and stress relief, so drinking herbal tea’s are great before bed. I’m into Herbs before sleep, and there is so many herbs that do relax a person to choose from. Do keep up the good work! I will be following you also. 

  3. Thanks for these excellent tips on how to sleep better. Funny enough this week I’ve tried to change my sleep schedule by going bed earlier and waking up earlier. So this post came right on time.

    I have habit of watching tv though to make myself fall asleep so I’m going to try maybe reading instead now. Also do you know if listening to a certain type of music will help people fall asleep and stay asleep ?

    1. Way to go for being honest Michael! 

      Music can greatly benefit some people, while it may disrupt sleep for others. It just depends on the person. It does not help me to fall asleep, because I am a very light sleeper, and like a calm quiet room, but my daughters however, both fall asleep better if they have music or some background noises playing. 

      Since you are use to falling asleep to the TV, then you may greatly benefit from listening to music. A soft instrumental compilation, or classical music is the most ideal for promoting sleep. I know there have been many studies proving that playing Mozart for young children as they sleep, leads to higher IQ levels, and I’m sure it would benefit adults in the same way. 

  4. Hello, the first thing that i noticed when i opened this page is the beauty of the website. i am sure you have put much effort into creating this article and the details are really clear here. sleeping is actually a luxury to some people and this why we should ensure that our sleep is as good as it gets. these are great tips.

    1. Thank you Benny! I’m so very glad to read that you are enjoying my website. There is a lot of hard work that goes into it daily, and thankful that you notice it. Would love to hear from you again!

  5. Brandy, A very informative site here. As someone who at times has sleep issues I found this very intriguing. I also learned a lot that I never knew and I thank you for that. I knew about the exercising and all that but whoever thought bananas and oatmeal at night would help you to sleep better. This may help me to start having a more restful night. 

  6. This is a great list of ways to improve sleep!  Until recently, I could fall asleep anywhere, any time.  Recently I started having trouble sleeping, but I didn’t want to take “sleeping pills.”  So many people recommended melatonin that I finally gave it a try.  Only 3 milligrams later and I am sound asleep each time.  It’s also clear I wasn’t really resting when I was sleeping before, because with the melatonin I wake up with so much additional energy.

    I do love tea so I am going to take your suggestion of herbal tea to help with sleeping to heart.  I’m sure it will also be nice to have something warm on the remaining chilly nights this spring!

  7. Sleep is a beautiful thing and you are correct that many do not get enough of it. I deal with young children every day and I find that many of them go to bed extremely late because of the use of IPads in bed. Some stay up even close to midnight! I find that just unbelievable.

    Personally, one of my favorite and most relaxing things to do is have a cup of hot tea to wind down before getting ready for bed. I also appreciate the fact that you out prayer on your list. Even if it’s just a short thank you or just a little meditation breathing does a lot to calm the mind and body down.

  8. I would love to create a website like yours as the template used is really nice, simple and brings about clarity of the write ups, but then you wrote a brilliant article on some of the ways to sleep better. good sleep is important for our health and some times i read books as it helps a lot.

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